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Dating Advice: Online Dating For Single Men

Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

What Single Men are Looking For

It's All Good!


No matter what your age, height, weight or physical appearance, there are thousands of women out there eager to meet you and eager for your company…whether short-term or long-term relationships are what you want. If you have found yourself suddenly “on-the-market” again after a relationship has dissolved or are just too busy with your work to spend a lot of time looking for a lady to keep you company, online dating can open the door to the dating scene for you.

The good news is that all you need is a computer and an internet connection to get started. The first thing to do is find an online dating site that fits your needs. There are the large sites that offer many extras like live video chat and even match you up with ladies using your profiles and, also, a lot of sites that cater to special interests like religious preferences, outdoor enthusiasts, gays, etc. You need to choose one or two that will meet your needs. I don’t recommend the free sites. The paid sites have a money back guarantee if you aren’t satisfied and the investment is small. A whole month costs less than one dinner and movie date.

The next thing you need to do is write a killer, but honest, profile and upload a recent but flattering picture of yourself. Now you are all set. Start contacting ladies whose profiles sound interesting to you and answer any lady who contacts you…and do so promptly…not, however, on holidays or weekends. You don’t want to appear that desperate. Don’t give up after a month and think you will never find the right lady for you. New people join online dating services daily and at least half of them are ladies many, of whom, will want to meet you.

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Dating Advice: The Professional Online Dater!

Friday, August 27th, 2010

Dating Advice: The Online Dating Professional

Escort or Soul Mate??????

With the popularity of online dating a new problem personality type has arisen that is now referred to as a professional online dater.

A professional online dater is a person who has developed an addiction to the dating sites in much the same manner that other people get addicted to porn sites and other sites on the Internet where they feel compelled to be on them as much as possible. Not only that but the professional online dater also likes to have several dates going on at the same time and is constantly looking for the perfect date.

If you have the misfortune of coming across such an individual you will be sharing your friendship with one or more others and when there are any signs of problems they are likely to disappear with no communication or conscience of the damage they could be causing to the person who they will be upsetting.

As with a married online dater it is a little bit difficult to determine whether the person you are interested in has this type of problem and the only way you will usually get any inkling of the fact will be when the communication is erratic and when it becomes difficult to arrange meetings offline.

The professional online dater will usually be somewhat secretive too as they will be trying to hide the information of one of their friends from the other.

You will often find these people who have the addiction appearing on several dating sites as they are always looking for more people to date and by having their profiles on more than one site they can make the profile on one or more sites private while they are using another for their next ‘victim’

If you have been mysteriously dumped by someone with no sign of it coming and no communication from them after the event then it is possible that you have been the victim of a professional dater. Consider yourself lucky that you have gotten rid of them and don’t let that type of person affect your opportunity for friendship and romance from the Internet.

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Dating Advice: Planning Your Meetings Offline

Thursday, August 19th, 2010

Consider where your first offline encounter will take place as this can make the difference between having a relaxed and friendly encounter or one where there could be difficulties.

If you meet at a restaurant or café for lunch it will give you the opportunity to talk and remain relaxed without the atmosphere becoming too intimate.

You might have a desire for it to become more intimate but it is good to have the option to keep the relationship at arms length if the other person doesn’t turn out to be as expected.

Dating Safety: Planning Your Meetings Offline

Plan Your first meeting with care!

A date at an earlier time of the day will give you time to decide whether you want to remain in each others company for the evening or call it a day while you have the opportunity.

You should also come prepared with reasons why you have to get away so you don’t feel obliged to stay with the person.

Planning in advance will remove any anxiety if the time comes where you feel the need to end the meeting.By meeting at places such as cafes you will find it easier to talk with one another than you would in a noisy night club or bar and it is only through your discussions that you will get to know one another better.

Never accept invitations to return to the person’s home even if you feel very comfortable with them as you will not have the control of the situation that you need in the initial stages of any relationship.

It is not the same situation you will be in as you would if the person you were meeting was a friend of a friend or someone who was known to other acquaintances of yours that would allow you to have a higher level of trust.

If the relationship appears to be working out well there will be plenty more opportunities to visit their home in the future so there is no need to rush into anything that you might regret later.

Take your time and enjoy the fun along the way while remaining safe at all times.

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Dating Advice: Promoting Yourself Online

Thursday, August 12th, 2010

Most of the major online dating sites require you to have a short message that will appear under your user name that people will see when they do a search.

You should make the most of this opportunity to attract people as a good headline can boost the number of people who will look further into your profile and make contact with you.

Don’t add a boring comment that won’t entice people to take action.

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What's Your Headline???

While you shouldn’t appear as though you are selling yourself you must realize that good promotion will help you get better results and you can take some cues from the best sales people when writing this opening headline.

Ask yourself what is in it for the other person.

Why would they want to contact you?

More often than not a person will show interest in someone who appears to be funny so adding something funny in this area will improve your chances.

Something clever will also get more people clicking on your profile but don’t use anything that has been overused as this will appear as though you don’t have any originality.

You can get ideas from other people but don’t copy their headings.

Imagine reading a heading that says – ‘Looking to meet someone new’

It’s not very inspiring is it yet that statement gets used hundreds of times by people on dating sites even though it is obvious to everyone on those sites that the whole idea of having a membership is to meet people.

Those people are either lazy, dull or boring with no imagination.

You can imagine why they won’t get many people contacting them.

Create a number of headers and ask other people what they think about them before posting online.

It’s always good to get other opinions.

One thing that your header should do is represent your personality.

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Dating Advice: Helping Friends To Find Dating Partners

Thursday, August 5th, 2010

Helping one another on and offline is the same. You get better results when there’s a little help from your friends and they will get the same benefits from you.

When you have many profiles to look through it can be easy to miss one and it might be that one who is ideally suited to you.

If you have friends searching for friendships too, they might notice the profile you missed and they can refer it to you or tell the person whose profile they have found about you.

Help Your Friends Find Dates

Friends Helping Friends!


Most of the dating sites also have areas where people can chat with one another and in groups. When you have friends on the same dating site you can get them to join in with the chat sessions and groups of friends can meet with one another online.

This is an excellent way to meet before any encounter offline as you get to know one another better and can meet up with friends offline where everyone feels more comfortable having socialized together in the chats rooms first.

You should make use of all the services that these online dating sites offer to help you get to know other people.

For females in particular, it is safer for them to meet offline with the security of having other people with them. This can be arranged online more easily where their friends are members of the same dating site.

There is nothing like a double date to help everyone relax and to help make conversation for the first time. It is also good to see what the friends of the person you are interest in are like as this is often a good reflection of the type of person they are too.

Not only is there safety in numbers but there is also more opportunity for everyone to find someone so get your friends online with you today.

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Five top feng shui dating advice rules to dress for success

Sunday, April 25th, 2010

Just a little dating advice, feng shui is very powerful at connecting like energy to like energy and so it has some very specific rules for attracting the right kind of chi or energy resonance for each individual.

In order to use feng shui to your advantage you need to know exactly what your own personal kua or energy resonance is. This is information you must have for feng shui to work.

There are 9 kuas or energy resonances. Once you know your own kua, feng shui will help you choose the right things to wear on a date. Knowing exactly what to wear on a date can help you attract other people with a matching kua. What you wear can also diminish your presence, this happens if you are wearing a color or color combination that negatively effects your personal kua.

    There are five important rules for dressing for success when feng shui single dating.

  • Rule number one is that you should always dress for the occasion and setting where your date is going to take place.
  • Rule number two always pick colors that enhance your personal kua
  • Rule number three be bold with your color combination.
  • Rule number four the clothes you pick should make a statement about who you are and be contemporary
  • Rule number five you should feel confident in the style and color of clothes you wear on your date.

Keep in mind that when you go out on a date, it is very important that you wear those colors that enhance your personal kua.

Supporting your personal kua with feng shui correct colors, creates an attraction to positive energy or positive outcomes because according to the rules of feng shui single dating. Like energy attracts like energy.

Just because a color such as blue is your favorite, doesn’t mean that blue is a color that supports your energy resonance. You can have a favorite color like blue, but know what your kua is before you wear it. You might be surprised.

It might just be that the color you like so much is actually masking you from all the potential lovers that would other wise find you most attractive.

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Single Dating Advice – Top Ten Single Dating Tips Your Mother Never Taught You

Monday, April 12th, 2010
Top Ten tips

Top Ten Single Dating Tips Your Mother Never Taught You!

Here’s the top ten important single dating tips your mother never taught you that all use time proven feng shui methods. Some dating advice, using these feng shui methods for single can create the best dating experience that you can ever have!

    Tip 1 – Think about the people you would like to date. Are they older or younger than yourself?

    Tip 2 – Collect photos of the type of people you would like to date making sure that they are in the correct age group for you. They should be doing activities that you like to do, or would like to learn to do. Next you need to look at these pictures every so often to keep them in your mind. This is so feng shui can start to work for you.

    Tip 3 – Prepare yourself mentally for feng shui single dating. You will need to keep in mind that feng shui has a formula, it attracts like energy to like energy, so it’s very important for you to visualize the kind of relationship that you wish to have. What the chemistry will be like between the two of you and your goals in life. Meditation is a very good thing to do right before a date. Be open, your mind is powerful.

    Tip 4 – Don’t be afraid to experiment! If your dates turn out to be too boring then collect new photos of people doing more exciting things. Let your mind go free here because with feng shui there are no limits placed on you. So fill the images in your photo collection of things that make you feel alive.

    Tip 5 – Be Safe. You may start attracting some pretty wild people depending on your photo collection, so it’s always a good idea to meet your prospect at a public place on the first date. Spend at least two to three hours together getting to know each other before you decide on the next date. Some relationships are going to be just a good romp in the hay and that’s what makes single dating kind of exciting. But, be prepared when you are struck by “Cupid’s arrow” that both of you are ready for something much more rewarding.

    Tip 6 – This probably goes without saying but it’s worth mentioning, be sure you are well groomed. Although, body scent and pheromones are very important, you still don’t want to wear too much fragrance. Chemistry is partly to do with the compatibility of both of your natural scents. Try not to mask them.

    Tip 7 – Be dressed for success! If you are going to a Black Tie event wear a tux or an appropriate dress. If you are going on a picnic, wear something casual. Always dress appropriately and let your date know or ask your date directly what would be the best thing to wear. If there is anything that can make you feel awkward, it’s feeling out of place. If this is a spontaneous happenstance, then let fate carry the moment, be flexible.

    Here’s where feng shui can really help. If you wear a supportive color to your kua, it will make you shine, standout and help to attract the most positive response to your desires. All of us are born with a feng shui energy resonance known as “kua”. If you know your kua and you know what colors to wear for that kua then you will really stand out and be seen by others with a matching kua. Now at this point you are really dressed for success. To find out what your kua or energy resonance is get a copy of “Feng Shui Tactics For Online Single Dating “ right now. It’s easy!

    Tip 8 – Don’t be a afraid to flirt! Flirting lets your prospect know that you are interested. If you are using an online dating service, send them a flirty message, if you’re someplace where your prospect can see you then you will know instantly whether they are interested. Flirting is a two way boulevard with many lanes to choose from. So, be yourself and let feng shui attract like energy.

    Tip 9 – Express your intent on the date. If you do the asking, then be prepared to make the decisions. Be as flexible as you can, but if you need to go “dutch” then state that out front. Again, if you do the asking, then you should expect to pay for the date.

    Tip 10 – Gage your prospects mood. You can always tell if something isn’t quite right. If you need to, make other arrangements to suit their mood, even to the extent of postponing the date for a better time. This will usually be better all the way around. Again keep an open and clear mind of what you desire and be flexible enough to allow it to come to fruition. Communication is the main course. Chi compatibility will always bring the best outcome, sound dating advice and the best of these dating tips! Find out your chi or kua and then use feng shui to attract compatible chi or a compatible kua to you.

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Online Single Dating Advice and Dating Tips

Tuesday, April 6th, 2010

Feng Shui Can Help Narrow The Search

What will you sniff out with this dating advice?

A new way to look at online single dating with dating advice and dating tips using proven feng shui methods. Not that many years ago online dating was frowned upon and often considered taboo. The thought was that it was only used by perhaps freaks or people who have some type of major social issue, but times have changed, technology has improved and today online dating is considered socially acceptable and safe to use. In fact, most online dating services now employ people to weed out any suspicious profiles and activity on their dating sites.

Joining a online dating service is easier than ever and it seems that everyone who is single and looking for a mate is a member of one online dating service or another, so when you join and see all those hundreds of profiles how will you know where to start? Do you look for a pretty face, a nice sounding name, the right color hair, or what? This is where the power in feng shui can really help.

Feng shui for dating works by connecting like energies to like energies. Everyone is born with a certain energy resonance or ‘kua’ as it is known in feng shui. Your personal kua or energy resonance contains information about your basic personality, your likes and desires. When dating, it’s always best to date someone with a matching kua, but to do this you first need to know your own kua and your dates kua.

Using feng shui in this manner will narrow down your search to only those who have supportive kua’s to your own and will be the best people to go on a date with. You will still find that there are plenty of potential matches and you can be pretty sure that you’ll at least enjoy your date even if you later decide there is no chemistry there.

So avoid your dating mistakes of the past and stop making those same mistakes over and over again. Now you can start going on dates that are exciting and romantic.

You can find the kua of someone that is the most supportive to yours, by using a little secret formula, developed over 5000 years ago in China. The formula has been put into three e-books that take you step by step through the ancient process of using the power contained in feng shui to your advantage in dating, either online or in the real world of everyday life.

Feng shui is the magic of our planet and it has always been available for those willing to learn its secrets. Online single dating tips and dating advice, using feng shui methods has never been easier or more rewarding.

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Single Dating Advice Using Feng Shui Methods

Tuesday, March 30th, 2010

Single Dating Tips Using Yin and Yang Foods

Single Dating Advice Using Yin and Yang Foods Can Make All the Difference!

Eating the Right Yin and Yang Foods
Using Feng Shui for Health and Weight Loss Is Sound Dating Advice

Being healthy and fit is very much a major part of single dating. If you are getting a little large around the middle you might want to consider losing some weight which will help to ‘open up the market’ so to speak and some ancient feng shui methods can help here as well.

Weight loss involves the right balance of Yin foods with Yang foods. Yin foods are foods such as oranges, watermelon, bananas, coconut, cucumber, most green veggies, beer, pop, ice cream, these are the cool or cold foods. Basically, foods that cool you down.

Yang foods are foods that can cause gas, pimples, or heartburn things like chili peppers, garlic, onion, curry, cabbage, eggplant, toro, pineapple, mango, cherry, peanuts, beef, turkey, shrimp, crab, fries, fried chicken, and pizza, these are the warm foods or hot foods. Basically, foods that warm you up, hot and spicy foods.

Balance is the key. Eat cool and warm together for the best balance and always eat only what your body needs, do not over eat which also means no second servings. Just wait a few minutes and the craving for more will vanish. Also don’t start skipping meals thinking that will help you lose weight because it wont! It will only make it harder for you to lose the extra weight you have.

A balanced and well portioned meal includes eating fresh food, eating veggies big time and eating meat sparingly. All food is good as long as you balance your meals and keep the portions in moderation.

Always try to find some way to include daily exercise like a brisk walk, perhaps you could do some Tai Chi or Yoga, or even join a gym.

The goal here is to be healthy and fit which helps you look your best and it is very important that you look your best when single dating because feng shui works by connecting like energy to like energy so if you’re fit and trim that’s what you will attract on dates. It’s true that the best marriages and strongest relationships are built with like energy.

We are all born with a certain energy resonance which is known in feng shui as ‘kua’ and is expressed as a number. Knowing your kua or energy resonance, will help you find someone with a kua that supports yours and a matching kua, or energy resonance, can make for a very good date or even a life long mate!

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Online Single Dating Tips Using Feng Shui

Tuesday, March 23rd, 2010
Online Single Dating Advice Using Feng Shui Has Never Been Easier

Online Single Dating Tips Using Feng Shui Has Never Been Easier

Online single dating tips using feng shui has never been easier. Not that many years ago, online single dating was frowned upon and often considered taboo. The fear was that it was only used freaks of nature or people who had some major anti-social issue. Times have changed, technology has improved and today online single dating is considered socially acceptable and safe to use. In fact, most online single dating services now employ people to weed out any suspicious profiles and activity on their dating sites.

Joining an online single dating service is easier than ever and it seems that everyone who is single and looking for a date is a member of one online single dating service or another. So, now when you join, you see hundreds if not thousands of profiles. The big question is, how will you be able to sort through all these profiles? Do you look for a pretty face, a nice sounding name, the right color hair, or what? This is where the power in feng shui can really help.

Feng shui for dating works by connecting like energies to like energies. Everyone is born with a certain energy resonance or ‘kua’ as it is known in feng shui. Your personal kua or energy resonance contains information about your basic personality, your likes and desires. When dating, it’s always best to date someone with a matching kua, but to do this you first need to know your own kua and your dates kua.

Using feng shui in this manner will narrow down your search to only those who have supportive kua’s to your own and these will be the best people to go on a date with. You will still find that there are plenty of potential matches and you can be pretty sure that you’ll at least enjoy your date even if you later decide there is no chemistry there.

So avoid your dating mistakes of the past and stop making those same mistakes over and over again. Now you can start going on dates that are exciting and romantic.

You can find the kua of someone that is the most supportive to yours, by using a little secret formula, developed over 5000 years ago in China. The formula has been put into three ebooks that take you step by step through the ancient process of using the power contained in feng shui to your advantage in dating, either online or in the real world of everyday life.

Discover amazing secrets of single feng shui dating. purchase a copy of Feng Shui Tactics For Online Single Dating for women or Feng Shui Tactics For Online Single Dating – MEN .

Feng shui is the magic of our planet and it has always been available for those willing to learn its secrets. Online single dating tips using feng shui methods has never been easier or more rewarding.

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