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Dating Advice: The Professional Online Dater!

Friday, August 27th, 2010

Dating Advice: The Online Dating Professional

Escort or Soul Mate??????

With the popularity of online dating a new problem personality type has arisen that is now referred to as a professional online dater.

A professional online dater is a person who has developed an addiction to the dating sites in much the same manner that other people get addicted to porn sites and other sites on the Internet where they feel compelled to be on them as much as possible. Not only that but the professional online dater also likes to have several dates going on at the same time and is constantly looking for the perfect date.

If you have the misfortune of coming across such an individual you will be sharing your friendship with one or more others and when there are any signs of problems they are likely to disappear with no communication or conscience of the damage they could be causing to the person who they will be upsetting.

As with a married online dater it is a little bit difficult to determine whether the person you are interested in has this type of problem and the only way you will usually get any inkling of the fact will be when the communication is erratic and when it becomes difficult to arrange meetings offline.

The professional online dater will usually be somewhat secretive too as they will be trying to hide the information of one of their friends from the other.

You will often find these people who have the addiction appearing on several dating sites as they are always looking for more people to date and by having their profiles on more than one site they can make the profile on one or more sites private while they are using another for their next ‘victim’

If you have been mysteriously dumped by someone with no sign of it coming and no communication from them after the event then it is possible that you have been the victim of a professional dater. Consider yourself lucky that you have gotten rid of them and don’t let that type of person affect your opportunity for friendship and romance from the Internet.

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Dating Advice: Online Dating Safety for Women

Wednesday, June 9th, 2010
Dating Tips: Online Dating Safety For Women

Safety tip for online dating for women.

Dating Advice: Online dating can be a fun and certainly a rewarding experience for women of all ages. Maintaining your safety while doing it is simply a combination of using common sense and exercising good judgment. Online safety rules are the same as real world safety rules.

You wouldn’t give your name, address and phone number to a strange man that you met in a bar or on the street so you should never do that online either. Play it safe. Get to know this man who could turn out to be Prince Charming before you give out any information that could make it possible for him or others to trace you. Don’t tell a stranger exactly where you work. Say that you are a legal secretary (if that’s what you are) for a mid-sized law firm….not that you work for Brown, Smith and Jones Attorneys-at-law. It is safe to tell him what city you live in but you should wait to be any more specific than that until you have been chatting and exchanging emails for awhile.

Use only the tools provided by the dating service you belong to. Most offer chat and private email on their site. Do not give out your isp email address. If you must give out an email address make it a free one such as Hotmail or Yahoo. Your isp address is traceable for anyone who wants to go to the trouble.

When the time comes for you to have your first face-to-face, make that first meeting in a public place and during day light hours. Take a friend with you or arrange for one to call you on your cell soon after the arranged meeting.

Remember…you ARE in control so do not let anyone pressure you into revealing more personal information than you are comfortable with revealing. It’s just good dating advice. ;-)

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Dating Advice – Little Things Make ALL the Difference In Online Dating

Monday, April 26th, 2010
Details Make All the Difference

Online Dating - It's the little things that make all the difference!

Here is some dating advice, sometimes it’s the little things that can make all the difference.

You might be surprised to know that even something as simple as your spelling when you are conversing with others online can determine whether they want to remain in contact with you.

A recent survey that went into many different areas of online dating revealed that some people who worked in professional employment were ‘put off’ by something as simple as the errors in spelling made by people they were in contact with online.

It even affected their decision to stop the friendship as they were looking for a permanent relationship and it appeared to them that the other person wasn’t of an intellect that they would be happy with.

Now as harsh as it might sound they could be forgiven for their views simply because there is a spell checker that anyone can use on their computer and the newer computers will do it in any application including conversations posted in dating sites.

While there are many people, professional or otherwise how can’t spell very well, there is no excuse for not using the services that are available to check spelling first.

The reason why this needs to be mentioned is not to focus on poor spelling but more so on the things that can affect your ability to attract someone.

You might have excellent spelling but it might be quite obvious that you have put very little effort into your profile or you haven’t bothered to use a quality photograph of yourself.

You appearance online is reflected in the things you do online from your photo and profile to the written comments you use to converse with others.

Now having said that, there is an ever increasing number of people who will type in ‘text style’ on the dating sites as they would communicate on their mobile phones so don’t be too concerned if you can’t spell. Just make sure that people understand that you are willing to make an effort and you are attracting the right type of people who will be compatible with your level of intellect.

This is just common sense. Feng shui has away of helping you focus on the details. Like energies attract like energies, so if you want to be with a quality person, then you need to project quality yourself especially online, just a little dating advice. ;-)

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Five top feng shui dating advice rules to dress for success

Sunday, April 25th, 2010

Just a little dating advice, feng shui is very powerful at connecting like energy to like energy and so it has some very specific rules for attracting the right kind of chi or energy resonance for each individual.

In order to use feng shui to your advantage you need to know exactly what your own personal kua or energy resonance is. This is information you must have for feng shui to work.

There are 9 kuas or energy resonances. Once you know your own kua, feng shui will help you choose the right things to wear on a date. Knowing exactly what to wear on a date can help you attract other people with a matching kua. What you wear can also diminish your presence, this happens if you are wearing a color or color combination that negatively effects your personal kua.

    There are five important rules for dressing for success when feng shui single dating.

  • Rule number one is that you should always dress for the occasion and setting where your date is going to take place.
  • Rule number two always pick colors that enhance your personal kua
  • Rule number three be bold with your color combination.
  • Rule number four the clothes you pick should make a statement about who you are and be contemporary
  • Rule number five you should feel confident in the style and color of clothes you wear on your date.

Keep in mind that when you go out on a date, it is very important that you wear those colors that enhance your personal kua.

Supporting your personal kua with feng shui correct colors, creates an attraction to positive energy or positive outcomes because according to the rules of feng shui single dating. Like energy attracts like energy.

Just because a color such as blue is your favorite, doesn’t mean that blue is a color that supports your energy resonance. You can have a favorite color like blue, but know what your kua is before you wear it. You might be surprised.

It might just be that the color you like so much is actually masking you from all the potential lovers that would other wise find you most attractive.

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Dating Advice For Dealing With A Break Up Using Feng Shui

Sunday, April 25th, 2010

Here is some dating advice if you are dealing with break up pain, then no matter how you look at it, it’s not going to be an easy thing to get through without the help of feng shui.

A lot of people incorrectly believe that they will be able to manage their heartbreak, only to find out that carrying a torch for someone after a love affair is over, is a lot like grieving, at least if you look at the relationship as having passed on.

When it comes to dealing with a broken intimate relationship, it is important that you look past the pain and find a way to survive even when things seem impossible for the time being and this where feng shui can help.

Dealing with break up pain all by yourself can seem impossible at first, but consider how many people deal with love and loss in their lives and survive to talk about it. You too will be able to get over what feels like a crippling break up, but only if you are willing to deal with heartbreak pain the right way, and the healthy way, the healthy feng shui way.

Feng shui has some very specific rules for attracting the right kind of chi or energy resonance for each individual. Feng shui connects like energy to like energy, so if you are pining, wining, crying, depressed you will attract wining, pining, crying, depression. Not exactly the best foundation for a fulfilling and exciting relationship. Don’t dwell on the bad feelings, but focus on the good parts of your life in order for feng shui to promote healing.

Here’s a very important step to take to use feng shui to your advantage.

You Must Clear Your Mind, take three very deep breaths and begin to dream about what you want in a relationship, dream about it in great detail. Then you have got to start enjoying yourself.

Go visit some old friends of yours, because going out and spending time with your friends and other people that you care about will be extremely helpful in getting your mind off of dealing with break up pain. This allows feng shui to start working on putting you in that new relationship you dreamed about.

You must go do something rather than just sitting there allowing yourself to become stressed out, overwhelmed and depressed by your heartbreak.

Maintain a good appearance, don’t let your appearance reflect your situation. You need to pay attention to every detail of your looks, including your clothes because the color of your clothes can make you stand out to others with a matching feng shui energy resonance or kua to yours, or they can make seem invisible, this is another reason you should know your kua. Also pay attention to your make up, your hair, your stride, your shoes and even your voice.

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Single Dating Advice – Top Ten Single Dating Tips Your Mother Never Taught You

Monday, April 12th, 2010
Top Ten tips

Top Ten Single Dating Tips Your Mother Never Taught You!

Here’s the top ten important single dating tips your mother never taught you that all use time proven feng shui methods. Some dating advice, using these feng shui methods for single can create the best dating experience that you can ever have!

    Tip 1 – Think about the people you would like to date. Are they older or younger than yourself?

    Tip 2 – Collect photos of the type of people you would like to date making sure that they are in the correct age group for you. They should be doing activities that you like to do, or would like to learn to do. Next you need to look at these pictures every so often to keep them in your mind. This is so feng shui can start to work for you.

    Tip 3 – Prepare yourself mentally for feng shui single dating. You will need to keep in mind that feng shui has a formula, it attracts like energy to like energy, so it’s very important for you to visualize the kind of relationship that you wish to have. What the chemistry will be like between the two of you and your goals in life. Meditation is a very good thing to do right before a date. Be open, your mind is powerful.

    Tip 4 – Don’t be afraid to experiment! If your dates turn out to be too boring then collect new photos of people doing more exciting things. Let your mind go free here because with feng shui there are no limits placed on you. So fill the images in your photo collection of things that make you feel alive.

    Tip 5 – Be Safe. You may start attracting some pretty wild people depending on your photo collection, so it’s always a good idea to meet your prospect at a public place on the first date. Spend at least two to three hours together getting to know each other before you decide on the next date. Some relationships are going to be just a good romp in the hay and that’s what makes single dating kind of exciting. But, be prepared when you are struck by “Cupid’s arrow” that both of you are ready for something much more rewarding.

    Tip 6 – This probably goes without saying but it’s worth mentioning, be sure you are well groomed. Although, body scent and pheromones are very important, you still don’t want to wear too much fragrance. Chemistry is partly to do with the compatibility of both of your natural scents. Try not to mask them.

    Tip 7 – Be dressed for success! If you are going to a Black Tie event wear a tux or an appropriate dress. If you are going on a picnic, wear something casual. Always dress appropriately and let your date know or ask your date directly what would be the best thing to wear. If there is anything that can make you feel awkward, it’s feeling out of place. If this is a spontaneous happenstance, then let fate carry the moment, be flexible.

    Here’s where feng shui can really help. If you wear a supportive color to your kua, it will make you shine, standout and help to attract the most positive response to your desires. All of us are born with a feng shui energy resonance known as “kua”. If you know your kua and you know what colors to wear for that kua then you will really stand out and be seen by others with a matching kua. Now at this point you are really dressed for success. To find out what your kua or energy resonance is get a copy of “Feng Shui Tactics For Online Single Dating “ right now. It’s easy!

    Tip 8 – Don’t be a afraid to flirt! Flirting lets your prospect know that you are interested. If you are using an online dating service, send them a flirty message, if you’re someplace where your prospect can see you then you will know instantly whether they are interested. Flirting is a two way boulevard with many lanes to choose from. So, be yourself and let feng shui attract like energy.

    Tip 9 – Express your intent on the date. If you do the asking, then be prepared to make the decisions. Be as flexible as you can, but if you need to go “dutch” then state that out front. Again, if you do the asking, then you should expect to pay for the date.

    Tip 10 – Gage your prospects mood. You can always tell if something isn’t quite right. If you need to, make other arrangements to suit their mood, even to the extent of postponing the date for a better time. This will usually be better all the way around. Again keep an open and clear mind of what you desire and be flexible enough to allow it to come to fruition. Communication is the main course. Chi compatibility will always bring the best outcome, sound dating advice and the best of these dating tips! Find out your chi or kua and then use feng shui to attract compatible chi or a compatible kua to you.

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Online Single Dating Advice and Dating Tips

Tuesday, April 6th, 2010

Feng Shui Can Help Narrow The Search

What will you sniff out with this dating advice?

A new way to look at online single dating with dating advice and dating tips using proven feng shui methods. Not that many years ago online dating was frowned upon and often considered taboo. The thought was that it was only used by perhaps freaks or people who have some type of major social issue, but times have changed, technology has improved and today online dating is considered socially acceptable and safe to use. In fact, most online dating services now employ people to weed out any suspicious profiles and activity on their dating sites.

Joining a online dating service is easier than ever and it seems that everyone who is single and looking for a mate is a member of one online dating service or another, so when you join and see all those hundreds of profiles how will you know where to start? Do you look for a pretty face, a nice sounding name, the right color hair, or what? This is where the power in feng shui can really help.

Feng shui for dating works by connecting like energies to like energies. Everyone is born with a certain energy resonance or ‘kua’ as it is known in feng shui. Your personal kua or energy resonance contains information about your basic personality, your likes and desires. When dating, it’s always best to date someone with a matching kua, but to do this you first need to know your own kua and your dates kua.

Using feng shui in this manner will narrow down your search to only those who have supportive kua’s to your own and will be the best people to go on a date with. You will still find that there are plenty of potential matches and you can be pretty sure that you’ll at least enjoy your date even if you later decide there is no chemistry there.

So avoid your dating mistakes of the past and stop making those same mistakes over and over again. Now you can start going on dates that are exciting and romantic.

You can find the kua of someone that is the most supportive to yours, by using a little secret formula, developed over 5000 years ago in China. The formula has been put into three e-books that take you step by step through the ancient process of using the power contained in feng shui to your advantage in dating, either online or in the real world of everyday life.

Feng shui is the magic of our planet and it has always been available for those willing to learn its secrets. Online single dating tips and dating advice, using feng shui methods has never been easier or more rewarding.

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Single Dating Advice Using Feng Shui Methods

Tuesday, March 30th, 2010

Single Dating Tips Using Yin and Yang Foods

Single Dating Advice Using Yin and Yang Foods Can Make All the Difference!

Eating the Right Yin and Yang Foods
Using Feng Shui for Health and Weight Loss Is Sound Dating Advice

Being healthy and fit is very much a major part of single dating. If you are getting a little large around the middle you might want to consider losing some weight which will help to ‘open up the market’ so to speak and some ancient feng shui methods can help here as well.

Weight loss involves the right balance of Yin foods with Yang foods. Yin foods are foods such as oranges, watermelon, bananas, coconut, cucumber, most green veggies, beer, pop, ice cream, these are the cool or cold foods. Basically, foods that cool you down.

Yang foods are foods that can cause gas, pimples, or heartburn things like chili peppers, garlic, onion, curry, cabbage, eggplant, toro, pineapple, mango, cherry, peanuts, beef, turkey, shrimp, crab, fries, fried chicken, and pizza, these are the warm foods or hot foods. Basically, foods that warm you up, hot and spicy foods.

Balance is the key. Eat cool and warm together for the best balance and always eat only what your body needs, do not over eat which also means no second servings. Just wait a few minutes and the craving for more will vanish. Also don’t start skipping meals thinking that will help you lose weight because it wont! It will only make it harder for you to lose the extra weight you have.

A balanced and well portioned meal includes eating fresh food, eating veggies big time and eating meat sparingly. All food is good as long as you balance your meals and keep the portions in moderation.

Always try to find some way to include daily exercise like a brisk walk, perhaps you could do some Tai Chi or Yoga, or even join a gym.

The goal here is to be healthy and fit which helps you look your best and it is very important that you look your best when single dating because feng shui works by connecting like energy to like energy so if you’re fit and trim that’s what you will attract on dates. It’s true that the best marriages and strongest relationships are built with like energy.

We are all born with a certain energy resonance which is known in feng shui as ‘kua’ and is expressed as a number. Knowing your kua or energy resonance, will help you find someone with a kua that supports yours and a matching kua, or energy resonance, can make for a very good date or even a life long mate!

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Online Single Dating Tips Using Feng Shui

Tuesday, March 23rd, 2010
Online Single Dating Advice Using Feng Shui Has Never Been Easier

Online Single Dating Tips Using Feng Shui Has Never Been Easier

Online single dating tips using feng shui has never been easier. Not that many years ago, online single dating was frowned upon and often considered taboo. The fear was that it was only used freaks of nature or people who had some major anti-social issue. Times have changed, technology has improved and today online single dating is considered socially acceptable and safe to use. In fact, most online single dating services now employ people to weed out any suspicious profiles and activity on their dating sites.

Joining an online single dating service is easier than ever and it seems that everyone who is single and looking for a date is a member of one online single dating service or another. So, now when you join, you see hundreds if not thousands of profiles. The big question is, how will you be able to sort through all these profiles? Do you look for a pretty face, a nice sounding name, the right color hair, or what? This is where the power in feng shui can really help.

Feng shui for dating works by connecting like energies to like energies. Everyone is born with a certain energy resonance or ‘kua’ as it is known in feng shui. Your personal kua or energy resonance contains information about your basic personality, your likes and desires. When dating, it’s always best to date someone with a matching kua, but to do this you first need to know your own kua and your dates kua.

Using feng shui in this manner will narrow down your search to only those who have supportive kua’s to your own and these will be the best people to go on a date with. You will still find that there are plenty of potential matches and you can be pretty sure that you’ll at least enjoy your date even if you later decide there is no chemistry there.

So avoid your dating mistakes of the past and stop making those same mistakes over and over again. Now you can start going on dates that are exciting and romantic.

You can find the kua of someone that is the most supportive to yours, by using a little secret formula, developed over 5000 years ago in China. The formula has been put into three ebooks that take you step by step through the ancient process of using the power contained in feng shui to your advantage in dating, either online or in the real world of everyday life.

Discover amazing secrets of single feng shui dating. purchase a copy of Feng Shui Tactics For Online Single Dating for women or Feng Shui Tactics For Online Single Dating – MEN .

Feng shui is the magic of our planet and it has always been available for those willing to learn its secrets. Online single dating tips using feng shui methods has never been easier or more rewarding.

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Dating Advice and Dating Tips – Enhanced performance and better orgasm using feng shui secrets

Tuesday, March 16th, 2010
Better sex using feng shui - Dating Advice and Tips

Dating Advice and Dating Tips For Better Sex Using Feng Shui

Let’s face it sex and dating go hand in hand.  We all want better sex, so can you have better sex using feng shui?

Have you ever had sex and well, you had to force yourself through it just to get off? Having to imagine someone else or worse yet couldn’t even get it up or you had to fake it? Well, if you are healthy and physically fit then your  partner probably has the wrong kua or energy resonance for you.

The number one feng shui dating advice rule is that like energy attracts like energy. Your thoughts and energy follow this basic feng shui dating advice rule. So, if your match is of the same energy that is most likely going to manifest itself in some pretty amazing love making, better performance and orgasm.

Dating tips – Picking the right match is pretty simple if you know the secrets to finding your own kua and it’s matches. First,  you’ll need to find your own kua and also you need to know how to find the match to your kua.

Second the chemistry must be right! You both won’t have a great sexual act if you are not both looking for the same things. So to enhance your performance and to have a great sexual orgasm then the two of you must be engaged at both a conscious level and at a subconscious level.

There are many sexual positions and many desires, connecting up with some one who has your same sexual desires, is instinctively what most of us are trying desperately to succeed at. This is where feng shui can help you find what you desire, both in bed and in the rest of your partnership by matching up your kua with the right kua for you.

Thirdly, feng shui offers you the opportunity to not only match up with the right person, but also offers you a method to find a true life partner. Sex is only one part of a marriage, albeit a very big one, but having similar desires in other aspects of your life like entertainment/recreation, work goals and home goals can also enhance your love making experience.

Is a sloppy kiss a turn on or is necking more your style? Every kua or energy resonance has it’s match, so why do you put up with those, not so sexually satisfying hook ups?

Find out what your kua is and what your matches are and then go on a couple of dates with someone with the right kua to see if the chemistry is there and if it is… Wow a more enhanced performance and a better orgasm to top it off! There’s nothing better than the right match! Sound Dating advices and dating tips!

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